{"id":2587,"date":"2022-06-29T12:05:45","date_gmt":"2022-06-29T10:05:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psykologvirke.no\/?page_id=2587"},"modified":"2024-10-03T09:52:31","modified_gmt":"2024-10-03T07:52:31","slug":"relasjonelle-traumer","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/psykologvirke.no\/en\/traumesenteret\/traumebehandling-hva-er-traume\/relasjonelle-traumer\/","title":{"rendered":"Relational trauma"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-black-color has-vivid-green-cyan-background-color has-text-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/oslopsykologbistand.onlinebooq.net\/\"><strong>Book an appointment here<\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-hva-er-relasjonelle-traumer\"><strong>What is relational trauma?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Relational trauma is trauma that has happened in relation to other people. Examples of this can be sexual abuse, physical abuse, neglect, bullying, war, torture and prison. It is <em>intended<\/em> damage caused by another or several others. This differs from random or so-called <em>&quot;not intended&quot;<\/em> trauma; such as natural disasters, serious illness or accidents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If the trauma repeats several times over time, such as in the case of neglect, family violence, incest; i.e. persistent unpredictable threat of death or threat to integrity, it is often called <em>&quot;type 2 trauma&quot;<\/em>. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If the complex burdens occur over time, early in a child&#039;s life, especially where this occurs in close relationships and therefore affects the caring climate - the term &quot;developmental trauma&quot; is often used<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Developmental trauma and\/or relational type 2 trauma are the type of trauma most often associated with the more severe trauma conditions, where symptoms and functional impairment are more pervasive. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The relationship itself at the center: the effect of relational trauma<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is not only the specific traumas themselves that are harmful to victims. At the core of relational trauma, it often is <em>the very loss of a close supportive person, which is the essence of the pain.<\/em> Feeling lonely and alone, without a stable experience of belonging and presence from another human being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Encounters with pain and overwhelm, without access to another organizing mind; which can support, reassure, frame and create a coherent narrative around the experience. An understanding that is crucial to being able to restore balance in body and mind. <em>The bad has happened and is over, now it is safe.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-vi-forstar-oss-selv-gjennom-samhandling-med-andre\"><strong>We understand ourselves through interaction with others <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We develop our understanding of ourselves, others and the world through interaction with other people. Therefore, it is not difficult to understand how repeated offence, abuse or violence can cause a person to develop a negative image of himself, others and the world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As <em>basic rules of living or truths<\/em>, which drives specific ways of thinking, feeling and acting. Such structures can be very robust against influence and corrective information: for example, experiences that indicate that you actually have value or that others are trustworthy and can stand up for you if you need them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many can thus identify with an experience of self-loathing, powerlessness and loneliness, not as a result of the trauma, but as something defective in themselves and their personality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-traumer-pafort-av-voksne-som-skulle-ivaretatt-ikke-skadet\"><strong>Trauma inflicted by adults who were to be cared for <\/strong>not damaged<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In many cases, unfortunately, it is also the person(s) who should have been safe in the first place, who have exercised violence or abuse. This often contributes to <a href=\"https:\/\/psykologvirke.no\/traumesenteret\/hva-er-traumer\/kompleks-ptsd\/\">complicate<\/a> the effect of trauma on victims.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Damage in a relationship and recovery in a relationship &nbsp;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since the basic experience of a relationship trauma is separation and loneliness, in the face of something burdensome and painful, one can also understand why a healthy, safe and trusting relationship is essential on the road to recovery. <em>The wounds that were created in a relationship must be healed in a relationship.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One could even argue that some types of adversity and difficult events actually turn into traumatic experiences, only if relational support is not available. A good, safe and supportive relationship is thus a kind of buffer against the effects of trauma on body, mind and soul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is also some of the active ingredients in the treatment of relational trauma. You can read more about this and other important elements in the treatment of relationship trauma <a href=\"https:\/\/psykologvirke.no\/traumer\/traumebehandling\/hvordan-bearbeide-traumer\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-black-color has-vivid-green-cyan-background-color has-text-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/oslopsykologbistand.onlinebooq.net\/\"><strong>Read more about our psychologists and order<\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is relational trauma? 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