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Where are we going?<br>further from here, he thinks? The question remains unanswered in his head, and it is<br>nor time to think the idea through. The noise from children who are dissatisfied with the<br>the pants that have been presented, and discussions about whether it is actually necessary to go<br>at school in general comes to the fore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She explains, as she usually does, that children in Norway must go to school, the King has<br>decided, and lists some good reasons why he has decided exactly that while<br>She swallows hard, as if to digest the words that were spoken yesterday. But they have settled<br>stuck in my throat. Those words that never found a place. They just lay on the floor like<br>something heavy and foreign. Like an unnecessary piece of furniture someone had dragged into the house and<br>which no one now knew what to do with. Could one give it to the annual<br>The flea market? A big sack with something dark inside? 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What are you supposed to say, anyway?<br>She&#039;s obviously not happy with me; I try and try, but it never works out.<br>enough for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She looks out the window, thinking about Geir and Lisa, Truls and Ragnhild. The kind of couples who get<br>that to. Who talk easily about building decks and pergolas in the garden, and<br>who drives the kids to soccer without a single frown. Who probably doesn&#039;t have a dark<br>sack of undigested words in the house that no one knows what to do with. The newspaper reads<br>she with half an eye a post from a couples therapist who thinks a whole lot about<br>how one should communicate. Far from how we feel, she thinks, and feels<br>felt even more depressed. Maybe this was never meant to be? But still<br>It feels like tearing out part of your intestine or something, thinking about it ending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab&quot;Can you follow the football today? I have some things to do after work,&quot; he says. She<br>nods. It&#039;s okay. At least that&#039;s what she says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He takes a deep sip of his coffee and feels a sting of something. There is a \u00absomething\u00bb here that<br>reminds him of something else. Something he has experienced before. It is unpleasant. He scrolls<br>It might go away if he just sits there completely still and drinks coffee and doesn&#039;t<br>provokes. She looks at him. He looks at her. There is something warm in that look. Just<br>a little moment. Both can feel it. But no one says anything. Maybe it can be done<br>Still, she thinks. Maybe? Then it&#039;s on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They walk out of the house, wave gently to the neighbor, and exchange a few words over the fence about how they<br>are planning to build a platform, and that they have to drive to football a little later today. &quot;It&#039;s a little<br>&quot;Oh, but just hang on to the strap!&quot; Laughter on both sides of the<br>the fence. They swallow again, so that the hurtful words fall a little further into their stomachs. They<br>give each other a quick hug, and their eyes meet. But only just. They have to move on with<br>today&#039;s program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As much as conflicts are natural and inevitable, they can also form some major,<br>painful &quot;bags&quot; in the house that you can&#039;t move, and that you eventually just have to<br>trying to avoid. Then you can feel quite lonely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If this isn&#039;t enough, you should also feel ashamed because &quot;everyone else&quot; gets it so much.<br>better. This is an illusion, and the illusion is probably due to the fact that we are not aware of<br>the wall inside people&#039;s kitchens, living rooms and bedrooms. In most people&#039;s homes there is arguing, or there is<br>An unapproachable silence arises when difficult emotions arise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Couples rarely argue just about the one current issue that is up at that moment.<br>Suddenly, a request to do the dishes or other small things can get a different and<br>greater importance as emotions well up and within you and you feel the need to defend yourself<br>against being called an incompetent and worthless person (even if that was not what was<br>said). When such waves of emotion are triggered, it can be about, among other things, that<br>huge archive we have with us of past experiences, but it is not so easy to get<br>thank you there and then.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is natural for us to try to protect ourselves from strong and painful emotions, and that<br>we tend to do things in slightly different ways. For example, one may become persistent and want to \u00absolve<br>it&quot; through conversation to feel safe, while the other may withdraw to<br>feel safe. One may become loud and angry, the other quiet and dismissive. During<br>this surface can both be afraid. Afraid of losing the other and afraid of<br>lose oneself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In emotion-focused couples therapy, we try to find peace and time to look more closely at what is<br>lies beneath the arguments, and what we typically do when we are afraid of hurt feelings.<br>The goal is not to eliminate all friction or to become experts in communication, but perhaps<br>to feel like you&#039;re &quot;on the same page&quot; a little more often.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">*From the lyrics of the song &quot;Did you dream of more&quot;, Valkyrien Allstars (2009)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Psychologist Ellen Sofie Hovland Austad A completely ordinary morning in a completely ordinary home can contain more than bags to pack, breakfast to eat and agreements about follow-up on leisure activities. 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